DESPERATION

DESPERATION....WHAT GOOD ROLE CAN IT PLAY IN A RELATIONSHIP??.....

None!!

According to the oxford advanced learner's dictionary, Desperation is a situation where an individual is so conscious of getting something, to the extent that he or she can do anything to achieve the desired result. It's like a do or die stuff and a 'by all means' attitude.

What does this cankerworm have to do with our relationship with others, especially with an opposite sex? 

I discovered that 85%of people we have around are so desperate when it comes to a relationship. 

One of the ways to prove this is this: a young man saw a lady at a conference and liked her, he went to her and they exchanged phone numbers. After the conference, the young man walked the girl home. On reaching his own house,he called the girl on phone to know how she was faring. Before he slept that night, he called the lady on phone again to say goodnight and even sent her messages. First thing the next morning, he sent her messages and called to say goodmornin. During breakfast the same mrng, he called 2 knw what the girl would eat. That afternoon, he called to say good afternoon, and even sent messages.... This continued for so long a time. Now, if you were that girl, how would you feel? It's no more caring, it's now pestering. Thats what desperation does to a relationship. Dearie, take it easy with the people around you. Take time to build a loving relationship with them, not hurrying them as if your whole life depended on that relationship. Dnt ever appear desperate so that you dont lose your value... Most of all, try to know where you're wanted and stick there. Dont try to force anyone to love you, because you might end up making the worst mistake of your life..you are too big and precious to be tolerated. You should be appreciated.. Finally, the only one who you should be desperate and obsessed about your relationship with him is God. Anyone short of Him is absolute debasement to your personality and self esteem..