DEALING WITH HEARTBREAK

Heartbreaks can be a very devastating issue in the life of anyone whose heart has been broken. It could lead to inferiority complex, fear, depression and it could also close doors to potential relationships. When a lady's heart is broken, she feels inadequate, lost and so cheap. It's also the same with guys. However, while these genders handle heartbreak in different ways, the fact still remains that a heart break takes a piece of someone's soul. And if you are currently heartbroken as a result of a failure in relationship, we have prepared something to help you. First of all, we will not fail to state that it is very hard to let go of that special someone who really added a special meaning to your life. That someone who gave your heart bubbles and made you feel commited to someone great. You just can't figure out how or why you should just wake up one morning and let go. But the best thing you can ever do is to really let go. These steps can help you: STEER CLEAR OF THE HEARTBREAKER The problem with most people who have experienced heartbreak is that they still stay close to the heartbreaker, with the intention of trying to make them change their mind. While it could be possible for the heartbreaker to come back, the chances are slim and staying that close really hurts. So, steer clear of that person. If possible, avoid the person. WAKE UP TO REALITY I know it might be easy to forget someone but very difficult to erase their memory from your mind. But the best thing to do is to wake up to reality. You are no longer together. You too are past to each other. And bygones should be bygones. CONSOLE YOURSELF You alone can really cause yourself to move on. You can push yourself. So, console yourself. Maybe you guys were never meant to be. Maybe you placed too much expectation on your ex. Take charge of your life. Be strong and stop fantasizing. BE IN THE COMPANY OF PEOPLE THAT LOVES YOU No matter how horrible you feel, there are still people who care alot about your welfare. Get in touch with them. Allow them take care of you. You need it. TAKE YOUR TIME The worst mistake you can ever make again is to jump into another relationship immediately. You need time to heal. So give yourself that time. Finally, you might need to talk to God and people you respect, so that they can help you through this dark time.